小黑人的部落格!!

随着年龄的增长,看人事物的角度也不一样。
怀念过去,珍惜现在,期待未来。
不一样的时间、不一样的情景,一一地把它们牢牢地记起来。
让我的青春没有白活。

Thursday, March 17, 2011

It's hard

I don't know why,
just no reason.
I just think that, relationship is just too complicated.
We never handle it perfectly, ever.
ya, of course, I am talking about ALL types of relationship.
Couples, friendship, family, sibling, brotherhood, and bla bla bla

I don't know why it is so complicated.
I thought it is just good and great,
but, hell ya,
no one know, anything would happens.

How to maintain a relationship between a couple?
For me, ah ha, can not answer, I don't have a girlfriend.

How to maintain a relationship with parent?
Just give couples of call in a week? or go back hometown and visit them?
or what? how?

How to maintain a relationship with friends?
hang out everyday? or what?
being friend, just for hang out?

How to maintain a relationship with siblings?
give them a call everyday? meet them often? or what?

How to maintain a relationship in brotherhood?
what brotherhood? best friend? your buddy?
so, how? hang out with him/ her?
hang out again?

So, does this mean that hang out is the common way to maintain or build a relationship?
I can not say it is THE way, I also can not say that it is not the way!

So, how?

I had been ask myself so many times, how to maintain relationship!
I tried, I am trying.

is because I over care about this?
For me, relationship is important, for me!
for everyone, I think it is!

Fine! I still try and try and trying!
I wouldn't give up on this,
yes, I know it always hurts and pain!